Be Friendly!

One of the best tips when it comes to attracting a woman is just to be friendly! If you are too shy to strike a conversation, then even a friendly warm smile can communicate your interest. Find something that you have in common, like the atmosphere at the bar or same color shirt, to strike a conversation. Girls like it when you are brave enough to approach them, in a friendly, respectful way! If she smiles and talks with you, feel free to continue the conversation. If she gives you a bad look and refuses to talk to you, best to move on. You wouldn't want to be with someone that rude anyway! You have nothing to lose... be friendly, smile warmly and strike a conversation. You never know where it may lead. :)

How to Attract Women - Tips to Help You Gain Confidence and Attract Female Attention

One of the hardest things that any guy can do is to really get himself to the point where he feels confident and comfortable around women, especially very attractive women. Even guys who do feel comfortable around most women know what it is like to feel uncomfortable the moment a really beautiful woman comes around them. But, if you are going to be able to really attract the kind of women that you desire and the ones that you dream about dating, then you do have to be able to get past that, don't you?

Here are a few tips that can help you to attract women and feel confident and attract female attention:

1. To get women to notice you, you have to be able to convey an image of having your own style.

Most guys tend to all act and dress very similar and this uniformity does nothing at all to make you stand out in a crowd. Just think about being in a club where there are dozens of good looking women and probably twice as many guys and you look like every other guy in there. Do you think that you are going to get noticed by women? Probably not. You have to find a way to carve out your own style, because the guys who do this are the ones that women notice right away.

2. To feel confident around women, you have to be around them more often.

It still amazes me how many guys who feel unconfident around women do not do anything to change that feeling by being around women more often. Having a set of guy friends is great, but that is not going to make you feel any more comfortable or confident around women, will it? Start hanging out with women as friends and you will feel a lot more confident approaching women you want to date.

3. To attract a woman, you have to give her the sense that you will add to her life.

Most women do not have any shortage of male attention in their lives. I mean, if they want to, they don't have that hard of a time finding a guy who will take them out on a date on a Friday night. If you want to be able to attract a woman, then you have to give her that sense that you will add value to her life, so that there is a reason why she wants to date YOU. It could be something as simple as adding humor or adventure, but it has to be something that adds to her life.

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5 Tips To Help You Attract Women

When it comes to trying to attract women, the experience is not always easy or pleasant as most men usually end up being shut down or ignored by the women they are interested in. If you are looking to be more of a "ladies man" and have a better chance on building friendships and perhaps even deeper relationships, there are a few things you should know about.

Here are 5 top tips to attract women:

Dress to Impress

While there are a lot of women who would never admit to it, the fact is that looks matter greatly. Just as much as women spend so much time improving their appearance, they also expect men to at least make an effort. Whether you are at the office or at the mall, there is always a better chance to get noticed if you are wearing nice clothing and appear to be well groomed.

Be Funny but Not Laughable

One of the most effective ways to attract women is to make them laugh during conversations. There is no need to be a well known stand-up comedian for this to work but you do need to know how to deliver punch lines naturally. Being funny, though, is a lot different than being laughed at, so make sure that you present yourself in the right manner and try to avoid slapstick humor as much as possible.

Never Use Cheesy Pick-up Lines

Women these days are extremely picky since they are aware of the power that they have over men which means you have to stay away from pick-up lines which are likely to get you rebuffed or slapped. If you are looking to establish a conversation with a woman, you can very well start with just a simple "hi" as opposed to orchestrating an elaborate scheme to get her to notice you.

Put Your Money On Chivalry

If you see an attractive woman fumbling over massive grocery items, lending her a hand would be a great excuse to start talking to her. Being a gentleman still pays off even today and you will certainly benefit from playing the good guy role. Even the simple act of holding the elevator door or giving up a cab will improve your odds of being able to attract women.

Be Confident but Not Obnoxious

Women like their men to be self assured but not arrogant. While it is acceptable for you to talk about your accomplishments, it is never good to go on and on about the stuff you have, the car you drive, and whatever else that makes you sound like you are full of yourself.

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Scents that Attract Women

Scent products trigger physical attraction by spreading pleasing fragrances. These are mood enhancers on relaxing and pleasurable evenings you spend with your lover. However, the odor of the natural sweat of a man is said to be highly attractive to women.

Women are sensitive to male pheromones (scented sex hormones) during the period of ovulation. Among body pheromones, androstenol is the body scent produced by fresh male sweat, and it is often attractive to women. Even though androstenol is by itself capable of attracting women, men are eager to use pheromone-based scents to draw women to them. An experiment carried out to prove this attractive power of male pheromones has shown that women frequently choose a pheromone-sprayed chair in a dentist's waiting room.

Scents that attract women include concentrated sprays with ingredients such as flower essences, roots, wild grasses, exotic barks, rare wine resins, and essential oils. These not only attract the opposite sex, but also increase their sexual desires. Aphrodisiac scents such as cinnamon, vanilla body spray, and musk have intense stimulating effects and boost sexual arousal in women immediately. Natural aphrodisiac, a new formula for men to attract women, is manufactured on the basis of the isolation and synthesis of unique pheromone compounds, which are mixed with essential oils to produce a scent. The scents are normally applied to the neck or forearm or on the clothes. You can wear these scents anytime. Some others are usually worn behind the ears or on the wrist. For the best results, apply the scents directly to the skin instead of the clothing.

Today, around forty unique scents are available that come in bottles with spray tops. One bottle may last up to two months. Many dealers offer discount and free shipping options.

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How to Attract A Woman: The Best Ways to Handle Physical Contact

Touching (physical contact) is an absolutely vital component of seduction. You can’t successfully pick-up a girl without first establishing a basic level of mutual tactility – I.E. Before you can move in for the kill by kissing and/or sleeping with her, you MUST first have a regular, healthy amount of touching that works both ways: she flirtatiously puts her hand on your knee, you encircle her waist with your arm and pull her a little closer – whatever form the physical contact takes, it has to be present for you to achieve your final goal of actual seduction.

And that right there is where the problem for many men lies: how can a guy get the ball rolling when it comes to tactility and physical closeness? If the girl’s not being tactile, how can a guy develop mutual physical closeness without freaking her out or scaring her away?

Often men just “go for it” and consequently end up making the girl feel uncomfortable or even slightly violated because of their rushed attempt at physical closeness. Other men decide they don’t want to risk putting a girl off, so hold back any kind of touching or bodily contact – doing so usually sends out the wrong message, that the guy is either not interested in the girl, or that he’s simply too timid to show it, neither of which are attractive scenarios in the mind of a good-looking, fun-loving girl. Okay, so what’s the solution to this awkward problem?

Quite simply, you just need to follow a few basic rules or procedures, all of which conform to the personal boundaries of most girl (and therefore don’t appear uncalled for or rushed) but at the same time clearly indicate that you’re a confident guy who’s not afraid of getting to know girls and even showing it through casual, relaxed physical contact. So, let’s take a look.

1. Many men think that touching a girl in any way when they first meet them is an absolute no-no. But that’s simply not true. To form a positive, strong first impression and create an immediate bond with a girl when you first introduce yourself or get talking, casually and gently touch the outside of her right arm while at the same time verbally expressing something. The outside of a woman’s arm is not intimate enough a place for the touch to feel strange or out-of-place, but at the same time it’s a clear-cut sign that you’re a personable, socially adept kind of guy. Don’t be afraid to give it a try – you’ll notice the benefits immediately.

2. Once you’ve started a conversation with a girl, or when you randomly find yourself chatting to a woman you really like the look of, it’s important to keep up the physical contact. Doing so helps maintain the bond and rapport you’ve already created and also helps build it further, into mutually felt sexual attraction. You can use something called ‘Stealth Tactility’ to do this. Quite simply, stealth tactility involves making physical contact with the girl in a disguised way. For example, if she wants to go to the bar or bathroom but doesn’t know the way, you can use stealth tactility by placing your hand on her shoulder, drawing her in a little closer, swivelling both of your bodies round until you face in the right direction, then point past other people or obstacles with your other hand to where she needs to go.

3. Lastly, always try to use a ‘contact close’ when you finish your conversation with a girl. For example, after swapping numbers or arranging to meet again, give her a kiss on the cheek or a hug and a kiss. Many men think that the hard work’s been done once something’s been arranged for a later date, but making physical contact before you part with a girl is always a great way of ensuring she remembers you and really cannot wait to see you again.

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How To Approach Groups Of Girls You Don't Know, And Get Them To Think You're Great!

By Tiffany Taylor

For this example I’m going to use women at a bar. I will be going into lots of other techniques for non-bar pickups too but for now, we’ll stick with this.

(Note: In fact, I even recommend you try my top places for picking up that are not bars – they are WAAAAAAAY better than ANY bar and you’ll see a massive leap in your success rates with women.)

As you know, women don’t usually go to bars on their own. They go in groups.

Approaching GROUPS of women can be extremely daunting and if you don’t know what you’re doing, you can fail BADLY with groups and like a pack of wolves they can rip you apart. I’ve seen men get cussed at, totally ignored and even drinks poured over them.

But if you do the approach RIGHT, then your success with a group of women can usually yield great results.

Whenever I suggest approaching groups of women I get LOADS of guys looking at me as though I’m from another planet. I realize that lots of guys probably don’t have the initial confidence to simply walk up to beautiful women they don’t know. Don’t worry, this can be easily solved. I’ll give you some simple tips here.


INCREASING CONFIDENCE EXERCISE IN THE MALL

Step 1. Walk around the shopping mall and when you catch a woman’s eye, smile at her – more often than not, she’ll smile back. To start with you can do this just with shop employees. Even if they don’t WANT to smile, they probably will. Good practice. And you might even brighten a few women’s lives a little.

Step 2. Once you’ve gained confidence in making natural eye contact and a smile with staff, you could move onto other women in the mall. I’m not suggesting big weird freak smiles, just nice, natural friendly ones. A lot of women will smile back at you.

Step 3. Here’s where it might seem a little weird, but this really does help and practice and repetition will make this lots easier. Just say “hi” with a smile to women (and men if you like) as you walk around the mall. It will feel HORRIBLE at first if you are not confident but slowly, after an hour or two, it’ll seem easy.

After you’ve smiled and said hi to 20 or 30 women, you should start to feel good (as long as you don’t quit on your first negative response – this will happen and will happen when you’re approaching women to pick them up – you HAVE to learn to step out of your comfort zone if you want to be successful with women).

One of my male friends did the “smile at girls in the mall” technique and he actually ended up meeting the girl of his dreams and is still with her 3 years later – how’s that for effective!

There are loads of other techniques you can do to build your confidence, most not quite as scary as the mall one. I go into others within my book…

Right, let’s assume you now have the confidence or at least the guts to approach women you don’t know in a bar (Again, I don’t just go into bar pickups in my book, in fact, I think the best places to pick up women are NOT in a bar – I think it’s everyday places where you’re not competing with other single guys).

Firstly, let’s suppose two girls are sat together at a bar. One is the ‘ugly’ one and one is the hot one (the one you like the looks of and would like to get to know more).

You see the girls. Go up to them and talk to them NOW! Don’t waste time. Within 3 seconds of seeing them, approach them. Some people call this the 3 second rule and I must say it really does seem to work.

If you see her and like her, it’s best not to think too much about the approach, or you’re more likely to work yourself into such a state that your approach will be ineffective or you’ll just pussy out altogether!
(Don’t worry I’ll tell you WHAT to say when you get there in a future lesson). So within 3 seconds, go TALK to her!

ALWAYS, ALWAYS approach a woman from the side or an angle from the front. !!!NEVER from behind – IMPORTANT!!!

If you go up to the group at the bar and approach from behind you will INSTANTLY invoke a negative response, and they will be put on the defensive - for obvious reasons. ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALWAYS go in from the side...

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